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Women Spiritual Leaders and the Meaning of Easter… Teach Only Love…

admin — Wed, 31 Mar 2010 00:08:20 +0000

In the Christian tradition, this week is known as ‘Holy Week’ where on what is now called ‘Palm Sunday’, Jesus entered the city of Jerusalem on the back of a donkey with many of the people flanking the streets, placing palm branches on the path before him. Events through the week culminated in the crucifixion and the resurrection, the latter now commonly celebrated as “Easter”.

While there are many sects within the Christian tradition with each having their own ‘take’ on the teachings of Jesus, I believe there is one teaching upon which all might agree. That is his entreaty; “Teach only love”.

What does that mean for us as women who are spiritual leaders?

• I think it means that when we are tired; “weak and heavy laden” that we turn to the Source of Love to “place our yoke” in order to feel that Love and experience peace within ourselves. To be comforted in the way that only that Love can comfort.

• I think it means that Love starts with us; that we cannot give it if we do not experience it ourselves. What do you do to cultivate Love? Do you have a daily practice where you can get quiet and access that part of you that knows Love? Are you able to foster a state of awareness of that Love during your waking hours as you go about the experience of living?

• I think it means that we use that awareness in order to know just how often we do not come from love, for to teach it, we have to be it. And when the awareness we cultivate shows us that we are not coming from love; we learn to be easy on ourselves. So often we are quick to judge and berate ourselves because after all, “we should know better”!

• I think it means also honoring the ‘simple’ acts of kindness, such as when we let the person who is trying to ‘cut us off’, get into the stream of traffic. When we check in on a neighbor we know is ill. When we respond to a request for help. When we pick up trash someone else has carelessly dropped. And a thousand other acts of kindness.

• I think it means being present with Love as we listen, really listen to those who are engaged with us in communication. Our lives move so quickly, and, as we know, there are many distractions. These facts often contribute to our not being fully there for the other when they require our respect and our presence.

• I think it means, not only giving Love to others, but also to ourselves. It is now almost trite to say that we cannot Love others if we do not Love ourselves, and that is filled with truth. We speak often in our articles about ‘self care’ which is one of the ways we honor Loving ourselves. How long has it been since you have taken the time to care for yourself in the ways that help you be a conduit for Love?

Jesus taught and lived the meaning of Love throughout his ministry. To me, the ultimate act of Love was his victory over death. Now are we free to Love as he Loved and to renew ourselves in that Love as we celebrate with all of our Christian friends, the meaning of Easter!

Love and Blessings!

Ruth

Ruth Reiner, Co-founder and President of The International Association of Women Spiritual Leaders is an ordained Interfaith Minister, Spiritual Counselor, Certified Life Coach, and successful business woman.

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Epiphany for Women Spiritual Leaders – 6 Ways to Invite an Epiphany to Help You With a Break Through

admin — Wed, 06 Jan 2010 01:54:07 +0000

For many of us Women Spiritual Leaders, we are familiar with the word “epiphany” in its colloquial meaning… “a sudden understanding, or insight, especially into the meaning of something”. As we honor the celebration of the “Epiphany” of the Christian tradition which this year occurs on January 6th, we would invite you to discover, or reaffirm, ways in which we might invite epiphanies in order to help with our ministries, our practices, and our day to day living.

I suggest that they are not unusual, and for spiritual women, may be quite common.

January 6th marks the celebration of “Epiphany” which to Christians of the Eastern and Western churches commemorates the arrival of the Magi and, for some, the baptism of Jesus. Both acknowledge the ‘Epiphany’ as the “manifestation of Christ to the world”.

‘Epiphany’ is also intertwined with the twelve days of Christmas, the twelfth also known as “three kings day” in honor of the Magi who, biblical and historical scholars think, may have traveled many months and over many miles to visit Jesus, Mary, and Joseph, who by then, had left the manger and had created their home. Once there, they honored the baby Jesus with gold, frankincense, and myrrh each having its own mystical meaning.

How many times have you experienced an ‘epiphany’ after struggling with a problem or a challenge that had you tied in knots?

Do you remember when the ‘epiphany’ occurred?

What was it that the ‘epiphany’ provided?

If you implemented the solution that the ‘epiphany’ presented, what were the results?

I ask these questions because I believe all of us as women spiritual leaders have had ‘epiphanies’ that could help us answer these questions.

How, then, can we invite those experiences of insights, revelations, and sudden realizations into our everyday lives?

1. Spend time in reading, study, prayer, meditation, and contemplation which provide the discipline to counteract the distractions which cause the ‘static’ we all experience which interrupts the clear signal which is often searching for our ‘receiver’

2. Commit to the practice of being in the state of ‘awareness’…

3. Be cognizant of our thoughts and resultant emotions by allowing and exercising the ‘observer’; that part of us who is constant, unchanging, and not rocked by our thoughts, feelings, and actions…

4. Practice letting the past and the future go… the present which is all we have, will provide the answers we are searching for…

5. When preparing for sleep, offer your problem, challenge, or issue… being willing to let go of it and trust that your answer will come… It may not appear in a dream, though often it does, or upon awakening the next morning; continue to trust that you will have the answers…

6. Expect the ‘epiphany’ and when it is experienced by you, offer thanks, and provide the environment and the steps, with guidance, to put it into action…

As we enter this new decade, may we, as women spiritual leaders and those of us who are awakening to our spiritual natures, experience the clarity and the potential for making a difference in our lives that an epiphany provides!

Reverend Ruth Reiner is an ordained Interfaith Minister, spiritual counselor and coach.

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Trust and the Woman Spiritual Leader – A Way to Maximize Your Christmas Experience

admin — Tue, 22 Dec 2009 23:15:29 +0000

How are you going to make it through what is considered to be one of the top stress filled times of the year? How many times have you thought about how the “holidays” used to be? Do you long for a simpler way of celebrating what scholars tell us was one of the most phenomenal events in history, the birth of Jesus? Please join me, women who are spiritual and leaders, as we look at trust and how it may relate to maximizing your Christmas experience.

I woke one morning recently with these same questions on my mind. As I spent time in contemplation, I was prompted to go again to the beautiful passage from the first chapter of the gospel of Luke. You may recall it recounts the interaction between the angel, Gabriel, and the woman from Nazareth, the virgin, Mary.

Gabriel announces to Mary that she will birth the baby Jesus. When Mary responds, with what I imagine would have been absolute alarm, “How shall this be, seeing I know not a man”? Gabriel assures her, “The Holy Ghost shall come upon thee, and the power of the Highest shall overshadow thee…”

What trust! Whether or not we subscribe to the story of the virgin birth, is not the issue. What is the issue, I think, is the way Mary conducts herself with obvious trust through the pregnancy and birth.

First, she runs to tell her cousin, Elizabeth, who herself is pregnant with who will be “John the Baptist”. I imagine the two of them embracing, and Mary speaks what has become known as the “Magnificat” or “Song of Mary” which is sung in Christian churches, usually around Christmas. It begins, “My soul magnifies the Lord, and my spirit hath rejoiced in God, my Savior…” What trust!

Mary stays with Elizabeth for three months and then returns to her home where she remains until she and her husband, Joseph, set out from Nazareth in Galilee into the province of Judea to Bethlehem to register for taxes. At this time, Mary is “great with child”. The rudimentary means of travel had to be a physical and emotional ordeal of enormous proportions for any woman about to give birth. What trust!

The story unfolds, now all too familiar, where door upon door of the inns and hostels were closed when Joseph inquired about lodging. I would have been “high anxiety” at that point, but, again, we are reminded of Mary’s trust.

When finally, the couple is given access to a simple manger, Mary births the baby Jesus in the final act of trusting. “My soul magnifies the Lord and my spirit hath rejoiced in God my Savior…”

When we, as women spiritual leaders, experienced our first inkling of our “calling”, or “awakening”, by and large, we ventured forth in trust that we would be led in every aspect of our lives. Perhaps we didn’t have a “Gabriel” experience, or an “epiphany”, but somehow the feeling of trust in God, Spirit, Allah, our Guides, or our True Self was exactly what we needed to show us the way.

For those of us who need to rekindle that trust, I suggest that it is the way to maximize our Christmas experience. When we are stressed or nostalgic this holiday season, I suggest we turn to our Source for the guidance and the wisdom that we know is readily available, and then… trust .

This article was written by Reverend Ruth Reiner, interfaith minister, spiritual counselor, coach, nurse, former wife, mother, and grandmother.

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4 Ways For Women Spiritual Leaders To Experience An Advent In Your Life And In Your Practice

admin — Tue, 01 Dec 2009 15:11:34 +0000

Today, the first Sunday in Advent, we celebrate with our Christian friends who look toward the “coming” of the birth of Jesus. Although largely symbolic considering that Jesus has been born, there are those within Christianity who anticipate the second advent, or coming of Jesus.
Each Sunday preceding Christmas is marked with the lighting of an “advent” candle; four in all, usually contained within a wreath or other shapes of evergreens. Advent is considered to be the start of the liturgical year in Western Christianity. The celebration is alive with tradition, from the colors of the candles and the banners within the churches and raiment worn by clergy and other spiritual leaders, to the hymns and in songs sung by choirs and congregations alike. The air is expectant, and the congregants eagerly look forward to the culmination of the festivities in the celebration of the birth of Jesus on Christmas morning.

For those of us women who are spiritual leaders in our respective religious communities; for those of us who have solo or partnership practices as spiritual counselors, energy and other holistic healers; and for those of us who are feeling the flames of longing to birth our own entities, “advent” could be pregnant with enormous meaning. In order to “birth” whatever it is in each of us, I offer the following:

1. Each Sunday of this “advent” season, or other day of your choosing, commit to spending time cultivating your spiritual roots. Whether it be in prayer, meditation, chanting, yoga, singing, drumming, dancing, being in nature, studying in your tradition, or writing… the very idea that you have committed to and have actually created an outlet and time for it, will alter your mindset and your attitude.

2. Each Sunday of this “advent” season, or other day of your choosing, commit to spending time contemplating your goals in anticipation of 2010. In order to be effective and successful women spiritual leaders, we need the direction that is contained within the framework of goal setting. For those of us who depend upon the guidance that comes from our spiritual practice, being aware of our goals keeps us alert to the opportunities that may appear at any time and place.

3. Each Sunday of this “advent” season, or other day of your choosing, commit to spending time evaluating where you spend your energies. Are you, like most, spending time on the 80% of your activities that produce 20% of the results? Or have you, like other successful women spiritual leaders, cultivated the art of identifying which 20% of your activities produce the 80% of results? It is not difficult to achieve… it takes the willingness to look at the big picture and to seek help in learning the tools…

4. Lastly… each Sunday of this “advent” season, or other day of your choosing, commit to spending time “weeding out”; letting go of what is no longer working in your life and/or in your practice. As women, and as spiritual leaders, we each know what that means in our own lives. As natural born intuitives, we know what needs to be examined in light of its usefulness and contribution to our lives and/or our practices. As women, and as spiritual leaders, we often feel that in letting go of that part of our practice/business that is no longer effective, or that relationship/s that is draining us of energy, we may inadvertently hurt people by our decisions to “let go”. And… it is likely that people may be hurt by our decision to “let go”. And therein lies the meaning, for me, of “advent”. When we “let go”, it allows for whatever it is to be born… in us, and, if they so choose, the people who may be affected by our “letting go”.

May each and every one of us as women spiritual leaders experience this time of advent… expectancy… as a time of dedication to our spiritual paths, to identifying and to committing to goal setting, of evaluating our lives and practices for the “80-20” concept, and to intuiting/examining our lives and practices for what needs to be “let go”.

This article was written by Rev. Ruth Reiner, an ordained Inter Faith minister, spiritual counselor, coach, nurse, former wife, mother, grandmother and entrepreneur.

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